Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Fasching (Carnival) Celebrations & Lenten Preparations

Happy Fasching Day!

'Fasching' means Carnival.  It is the name given to the festivities leading up to Lent (which begins tomorrow - Ash Wednesday) celebrated in Austria, Germany, and Switzerland.

The celebrations in Gaming began over a week ago with a huge parade - that only occurs in Gaming every five years.  Lots of floats pulled by tractors, candy distributed, and invitations given out (to the lucky few) to join in the drinking aboard most of the floats!



The Kartause's Keller Pub float


Fasching celebrations in the Kindergarten began last Friday with 'Kasperlfest'.  I'm not exactly sure what that means...'Kasperl' translates to Casper, but 'kasperl' (lowercase 'k') translates to cashew - which Ellie is allergic to.  But she came home looking like this...so I'm guessing clowns and not allergy-causing nuts were involved!



Yesterday was 'Rosenmontag' which translates to Rose Monday.  Wikipedia tells me it is the highlight of the German Carnival and is on the Shrove Monday before Ash Wednesday.  The note from her Kindergarten stated that the mysterious 'Kasperl' comes to the school on this day.  Ellie came home with her ticket from 'Kasperltheater' and told me there was a big puppet show!

Today (Tuesday before Ash Wednesday) was Fasching.  I learned last year that this is the day Austrians dress up like Americans do for Halloween - except their outfits are not really scary, and they wear them all day.  The school's secretary was dressed like a pig, and I saw a few adults out for a morning walk dressed as clowns.  Ellie went as Belle from Beauty and the Beast: The Enchanted Christmas (aka, the dress our neighbors gave us :)   


Francis and I were at home celebrating the day finishing off all of the sweets around here and making chocolate chip/sprinkle pancakes and sausages for lunch and dinner!

Ellie helped me make a paper chain for Ash Wednesday through the Octave of Easter ending on Divine Mercy Sunday (which is 9 days before my due date...so maybe the baby will come before we're through the chain?!)


A few Lenten sources I'm looking at this year:

Article - 7 Ways to Improve Your Marriage this Lent

Free Videos & Activities for Kids - Holy Heroes Lenten Adventure

Lots of Resources for Kids - Catholic Icing

Blog Post & Link to Online Retreat for Adults from an amazing (hilarious, humble, & holy) woman & friend - Lent is Coming, Are You Ready?

Action Plan Sheet - Lent is Coming

Have a blessed Lent!

Thursday, February 23, 2017

All Things Natural: 30 Weeks & Whole30

Now 30 weeks pregnant, we're starting to prepare to do things naturally around here...

First the latest photo though...  Baby Kissinger looking good, weighing in around 3.5 lbs and 36 cm long.  Everything looking very "nice" as my doctor put it!


I'll have one more visit with my doctor at 36 weeks and then I'll start going weekly to the hospital until the baby arrives.  Which brings us to our first "natural" item:

Natural child birth!

From what I've gathered so far -- when I arrive at the hospital (it's about 20 minutes from our home), I'll go to a room with my assigned midwife, a birthing ball, essential oils, and possibly a tub for a water birth.  Apparently some form of an epidural is available here, but they aren't the norm and definitely aren't encouraged.  The midwives will help me through my labor and the on-call doctor will be present for the delivery. 

This will *hopefully* be my first natural child birth, so I am starting to mentally and physically prepare.  Brian and I took the 10-week course for The Bradley Method of Husband-Coached Natural Childbirth when I was pregnant with Ellie, but that went about as well as him trying to teach me how to drive a manual car.  That ended with with one of the TOR Sisters teaching me to drive instead, because I found it much harder to yell at a nun ;)  This time around, I'm hoping that with the expert midwives encouragement - and Brian's loving presence from the sidelines - I will have this baby naturally.

I'm reading Ina May's Guide to Childbirth and just ordered Penny Simkin's The Birth Partner.  I'd love to find an English/German speaking doula in the area, but not sure if that will become a reality.  (I hear the midwives are so great here though, that a doula really may not be as necessary as it would in the States).  I'm open to hearing any encouraging natural birthing stories - so feel free to share with me!!      

30 weeks
Our second natural item is eating more naturally, so during Lent we're embarking on the "Whole30" eating program.  The goal is to eat natural, real, unprocessed, nutrient-dense food!  So yes to meat, seafood, eggs, vegetables, fruits, and natural fats.  NO to sugar, alcohol, grains, legumes, and dairy.  It is safe to do Whole30 while pregnant, I may just be doing more mini-meals instead of 3 large meals with no snacks.  I'm pretty nervous about no sugar and no pasta - but psyched to do it for the health of the baby.  The program's motto is: "It's not hard.  Don't you dare tell us this is hard.  Beating cancer is hard.  Birthing a baby is hard.  Losing a parent is hard.  Drinking your coffee black. Is. Not. Hard."  So it looks like I'll be doing at least one hard thing in the coming months...

But when we start Whole30 it'll be Lent, so good time to sacrifice.  However, due to the fact Brian is in Italy with the students during the first couple days of Lent, we'll be officially starting on the first Sunday of Lent.  We'll finish before our anniversary, Easter, my birthday, Francis' birthday, Brian's birthday and the baby's due date - which are all in a two-and-a-half week span!!

Again, any encouraging Whole30/eating naturally food stories - feel free to share!  

This week we did some healthier grocery shopping and tried out a few Whole30-approved recipes including these yummy stuffed peppers.  (Um but yeah, I totally ate my second pepper over pasta the following day for lunch - followed up by a few chocolate chip cookies...so I've got some work to do!)


Finally, in the category of natural things, remains Francis' hair.  I've continued to trim his bangs when it gets in his eyes - but other than that, his beautiful, natural curls remain intact :)


Have a great day!  Oh, and naturally, God bless!

Monday, February 20, 2017

Kindergarten Birthday Celebration

In addition to our 4-day celebration, Ellie got to celebrate her birthday at Kindergarten!  

Granted, I've never been to a pre-school birthday celebration in the States (other than my own, I suppose), but the way the Austrian children celebrate is quite remarkable!

There was no school the week of Ellie's actual birthday because it was 'ski week' - a week that all students have off and the expectation is that their parents take off work as well and they go skiing.  The week prior to that the children had the option of enrolling in a week long ski course to prepare - Ellie and some of the other younger students didn't enroll in the course, but I think she'll be ready for it next year!  So anyway, today was the day that Brian and I were invited to join Ellie for a birthday celebration at school. 


First, she had some time to play and show us her favorite games.


Then the children, and Brian, gathered on the steps.  The teacher explained (all in German, of course) that it was Ellie's birthday, asked Ellie how old she is ("vier"), and showed the children how to count to 4 on their fingers.


Then Ellie, Brian, and I were asked to wait outside of her classroom in the special book area.  We were probably out there for 10 minutes while they prepared the classroom.


When we came back in, everyone was seated in a circle and Ellie was called to the back corner.


They sang songs as she walked to her seat, covered with the golden cloth, as two students held the sunshine arch above her.


After more songs, she was asked to sit in the center of the circle.  Four students had candles under their seats, and they took turns walking around Ellie and placing the candles in front of her.


Ellie was then crowned with a flower head piece.  Then each child and teacher came up to her, took her hand, and wished her a happy birthday (some said something quite lengthy, but I couldn't understand anything being said - I'm sure it was very sweet)!


Ellie then opened her birthday present from the students.  It's this really neat bird that balances on one's finger or this little tree stand.


The teachers then held the candles as Ellie blew them out.


Ellie was then able to pick two students to join her at the big table for snack.  She picked the two students sitting directly in front of her :)  Our neighbor, and her good friend, Benjamin!


And a six-year-old girl we had never met before, Ana!  (It's 'Montessori style' so 3 through 6 year olds are in one class).  She also changed into the crown she helped make - this one she was able to keep and bring home.


Snack ("Jause") time is very impressive.  After holding hands and praying, the kids take their snacks out of their tupperware (wasteful plastic baggies are not a thing here) and transfer them to nice ceramic dishes.  They drink out of real glasses, which are kept at a special station in the classroom.


After they finished their own snack, they were able to come over and ask Ellie and me if they could please have a birthday treat (at least I think that's what they were saying).  They were all very formal and polite!  I was glad to see the kids liked the treat, which contained chocolate chips from the U.S. (they're not sold here).  The teacher told me it was great I brought a "multi-cultural" dessert :)


As they finished their snack, they packed up their lunchboxes and brought their plates over to the sink where they washed them in soapy water and the teacher helped to drive them off.  Impressive!


They then went to the bathroom and brushed their teeth!!


Over an hour later, it was time for Brian and I to go.  I thought for sure Ellie would insist on coming home with us (it was 10:30am, and the bus doesn't leave the school until noon).  At first she did say she wanted to leave with us, but Benjamin 'begged' her to stay and she agreed!  When she got home, she told us that they went to the gym after we left and she got to pick the game.  She chose "Eisbar" - in which she pretends to be a polar bear on ice and tries to catch the other children.

Tomorrow the teachers have an in-service day, and she was super disappointed she can't go back to school tomorrow.  It's so nice knowing how much she loves it there!  Although we didn't hear her speak much German, she definitely seemed to understand what was being said - and that is what her teacher told us as well - she can understand German and the ability to speak it will come next.

I can't believe how fast she is growing up and what a champ she is embracing her first schooling experience all in German!  It seems like just yesterday she was 2 years old meeting Francis for the first time wearing her pink "Big Sister" shirt -- that may be because two years later she is still wearing the SAME pink shirt (see all pictures above)!  Hopefully it'll still fit in 10 more weeks so she can wear it again to meet her new baby brother :)


Monday, February 13, 2017

Ellie turns 4 :)

Ellie turning 4 meant 4 days of celebrating!

It wasn't quite planned that way, but when we realized we'd be heading to Vienna with all the students on her actual birthday we started the celebration a day early!

The day before her birthday, she opened her birthday presents and we had the homemade birthday cake that she helped make and decorate. 





Yes, Francis' hair can be pulled into a 'boy bun' ;)

The gift in Christmas paper is from Aunty Shannon & family, it was a girl baby doll -
but I didn't want to send Ellie mixed messages on Christmas when we found out we were having a boy -
so, she had to wait til now to receive her girl baby doll :)

On February 10, her actual birthday, we left for a two-day trip to Vienna. The first stop was at the Abbey of Heiligenkreuz (Holy Cross) a 12th century Cistercian monastery in the middle of the Vienna woods for Mass.  Here, we were able to kiss a large relic of Jesus' true cross.  Not a bad way to start one's birthday....

But, of course, Ellie's highlight of the morning was riding on the charter bus and knowing we'd be staying in a hotel that night!

When asked, "How did you feel waking up 4 years old today?"  She answered, "Kind of sleepy."
Q: "How does it feel to be 4?"  A: "Like being 5."
Q: "Is that a new coat?'  A: "No, I have a sweater on under it - I'm just really buffle today."
(Buffle is her word for fat; oddly enough, she uses that word a lot).





We had birthday lunch with 160 of her closest student, faculty, and staff friends! After wiener schnitzel (Wien = Vienna) they brought her apple strudel out with a huge (slightly scary) sparkler while everyone sang happy birthday!





Then the real fun happened - Ellie and I went to Zoom, the children's museum, with our neighbors. For 90 minutes, Ellie got to paint and create artwork without any restrictions! Very fun!!








Day 3 of her birthday celebration we went to the aquarium in Vienna, Haus des Meeres.





The following day we went to the Circus, which was in town about 30 minutes from Gaming. 










No elephants, but they had cows!

Ellie loved the 3 guys riding motorcycles around a woman in the cage!
(I was terrified.)


We are very proud of Ellie - her love, faith, creativity, and bravery in embracing Austrian living and school!

Happy birthday, sweet girl!!